The first date is the best time to improve the relationship. Giving a girl a perfect dating experience is a key to leaving a good impression on her. If you want a girl to have a perfect dating experience, the arrangement of the dating process is very important. So the question is, what should you do on a first date? Here are some dating tips
1. The location of the first date
The best place to choose a date is in a familiar place to prevent trouble after the date. On a first date, 80 percent of men opt for dinner, a movie, or coffee.
Dating in a familiar place is like dating in your territory. You are not shy about dating in your field. Why do so many men have nothing to talk about? Because of the lack of this core confidence, when you are confident, there is a lot to say. Here are some suitable dating places to share with you: real CS, secret room, amusement park, haunted house, aquarium, DIY craft store, private cinema, bar, bar, KTV, spa, swimming pool, and ski resort.
The above dating places can promote interaction with girls. Through interaction, the girl’s emotions can be naturally mobilized, and when the girl’s emotions are high, it is also convenient for physical contact.
2. Dress for a first date
On a first date, first impressions count. Dressing up can reflect a person’s taste in life. Besides, a clean appearance and decent clothes also show respect to girls.
For example, when you first date a girl on the playground, it is not appropriate for you to wear a formal dress to the date; If your first date with a girl is at a western restaurant, it is not a good idea to wear casual clothes to the date. In addition, it is best to remind the girl after the date place is determined. For example, it is suggested that girls should not wear high heels when dating on the playground. If you’re going to play CS, you’d better not wear a dress.
No matter how well you and the girl talked on WeChat before, the first date is still a new starting point, and if you talk beyond the current level of the relationship, then your date is bound to fail. So the first date to chat with girls, the topic is best to fully interact with girls. For example, on a first date, it is taboo to talk about personal matters such as monthly salary and family.
The best way to chat is to share yourself first, and then gradually lead the girl to reveal herself. When asking the girl, it is best to ask the girl open questions. When the girl shares herself, listen carefully, focus on interacting with the girl, and maintain eye contact. Topics you can talk to girls about are weather, food, friends, childhood, future, ideals, TV movies, gossip, and entertainment, taste in clothes, current environment, things around you, opinions on things, etc.
4. The location of the first date should know that people’s freshness is timeliness. If you spend too much time in the dating area, the girl’s enthusiasm for dating will gradually decline. So to create a perfect date, you have to try changing the venue several times during the date. The purpose of the transition is to increase the emotional experience of the girl you are dating, increase the emotional investment of the girl you are dating, and increase the freshness of the girl you are dating.
First, meet a girl at a coffee shop in the afternoon, then order two cups of coffee and chat for an hour or so. Secondly, after coffee, take the girls to Ikea, which is suitable for photos and snacks. Third, when visiting Ikea, book tickets in advance and go to the movies with the girl. Fourth, take the kids to dinner after the movie. Fifth, you can take the girls home after dinner.
This will definitely impress the girl, but after all, this is only the first date, and it will only take your relationship further, not particularly deep, so don’t forget to create an opportunity for the next date with the girl. When you’re having dinner with a girl, you can say, “Know of a restaurant that’s good, I’ll take you there next time.” Or when you’re shopping, you can say, “My friend said that so-and-so is interesting, we can experience it together next time.” When you leave to go home after the date, you can say to the girl, “Looking forward to the next date.”